Thursday, November 4, 2021

Been There Voices - Anita Perez Ferguson - How do you manage prolonged exposure to grief?

After teaching my weekly class at the Ventura Post Acute Care Center I wrote:

Your pain and sickness
Distress my spirit.
Seeing you erases
The smile I washed and ironed Especially for our visit.

How do you manage
Prolonged exposure to grief?
I cannot store up enough cheer to last the journey.

** Anita Perez Ferguson, Santa Barbara, CA, young adult historic fiction author

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1 comment:

  1. What a powerful piece to wake up to this morning. Your imagery of "washing and ironing" your smile, girding yourself for the visit really spoke to me. My mother was in a nursing home and I often think of those who were there, but not there. I admire those who choose this as a career. I don't think I could do it. Susan Larson