Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Idylling About ...


Reflections
Sometimes change comes in demitasse cups … sometimes it floods your world with Big Gulps.  The past several months have been of the Big Gulp variety as a new love entered my life, I sold my home in Arroyo Grande and began to live on the edge of a breeze, drifting here and there like a milkweed seed.  In between the lovely, weightless moments have been surges of terror, insecurity and a mad grasping for something … anything … that would make me feel some sense of control.

Gradually, I'm settling down, releasing the need to know what's coming next, letting go of expectations and thoughts of what life *should* be like.  At my age, there's no longer time to worry about what the world thinks, what the world expects, what the world deems "right."  The new love in my life handed me a platter of possibilities and said pick what you want … what you really want.  It's frustrating to realize that I'm not sure I know.  Even now … here in my seventh decade ... I still have to stop and think: do I really want this (whatever it is) or am I just operating on past conditioning?

My life no longer looks "normal." I don't have a "home" in the standard sense. I'm not married, employed, working to make the world a better place or even baking cookies for my grandchildren. I have almost nothing to hang my ego and identity on. If someone should ask me what I do, I'd stammer helplessly for an answer.  For the first time in my life I may be more of a "being" and less of a "doing."

In two weeks I will head off to Mexico to fulfill a dream I've had for most of my adult life … to learn Spanish.  It's a dream I've launched in fits and starts, taking Spanish 1 probably a dozen times or more, always convincing myself that I would never be really good at a second language so it was pointless to try.  Now, I've decided I don't care where I wind up, I just want to revel in a new language.  So, for seven weeks, I'll be in an intensive language course … four weeks in San Miguel de Allende (an art community in central Mexico), then three weeks in Playa del Carmen (on the beach in the Yucatan).  And, then, just for good measure a week in Merida, the capital of the Yucatan where wandering the streets will be my classroom.

As I've been thinking about this trip, I knew I wanted to blog about this adventure … therefore, I started looking for a new blog title and came up with Idylling About... with the idea of wandering about with little direction in a peaceful, joyful manner. A merger of "idle" and "idyll" building on the dictionary definition of idyll as a noun meaning an extremely happy, peaceful, or picturesque episode or scene.

Turning that noun into action yielded "idylling" -  joyfully living with little structure and forethought while wandering through art, love, imagination, spirit, peace, transformation, poetry, metaphor, connection and conversation. 

You're invited to join me and add your comment about how you are idylling through life. 

7 comments:

  1. Joyce, I'm not idylling nearly enough, but occasionally, with art, I wander through space and time, living totally in the moment, and feel blessed. You may well be the perfect Poster Woman for Blissful Retirement...still seeking, still curious, but content.

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  2. Becky ... and, for me and others, you are a role model of a life lived in creative exploration and love. I'm always touched by your generous shadings.

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  3. While "shadings" could work with your beautiful art, the word that was in my head but did not come through my fingers, was "sharings" ... actually looks like it was those little word weevils in auto correct. ;-)

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  4. love to follow along, Love Mexico and San Miguel de Allende.. visited there over 25 years ago, and wanted to stay then.

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  5. So, as always, you continue to inspire me with your capacity to live passionately and freely in the many and myriad expressions of your heart calling you to leap.

    And I love your word! Idylling... fabulous!

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  6. As much as I've missed you, I'm delighted you are finding ways to fulfill dreams, to live with your heart open wide, to idyl for a moment alongside the beauty and love you are finding still exists in the world. Blessings. I'll still hope we'll have that meet up one day.

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  7. Thanks Maureen ... I've missed you also. I think things are settling down now so I hope to be back in the blog world shortly.

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