Gradually, I'm settling down, releasing the need to know what's coming next, letting go of expectations and thoughts of what life *should* be like. At my age, there's no longer time to worry about what the world thinks, what the world expects, what the world deems "right." The new love in my life handed me a platter of possibilities and said pick what you want … what you really want. It's frustrating to realize that I'm not sure I know. Even now … here in my seventh decade ... I still have to stop and think: do I really want this (whatever it is) or am I just operating on past conditioning?
My life no longer looks "normal." I don't have a "home" in the standard sense. I'm not married, employed, working to make the world a better place or even baking cookies for my grandchildren. I have almost nothing to hang my ego and identity on. If someone should ask me what I do, I'd stammer helplessly for an answer. For the first time in my life I may be more of a "being" and less of a "doing."
In two weeks I will head off to Mexico to fulfill a dream I've had for most of my adult life … to learn Spanish. It's a dream I've launched in fits and starts, taking Spanish 1 probably a dozen times or more, always convincing myself that I would never be really good at a second language so it was pointless to try. Now, I've decided I don't care where I wind up, I just want to revel in a new language. So, for seven weeks, I'll be in an intensive language course … four weeks in San Miguel de Allende (an art community in central Mexico), then three weeks in Playa del Carmen (on the beach in the Yucatan). And, then, just for good measure a week in Merida, the capital of the Yucatan where wandering the streets will be my classroom.
As I've been thinking about this trip, I knew I wanted to blog about this adventure … therefore, I started looking for a new blog title and came up with Idylling About... with the idea of wandering about with little direction in a peaceful, joyful manner. A merger of "idle" and "idyll" building on the dictionary definition of idyll as a noun meaning an extremely happy, peaceful, or picturesque episode or scene.
You're invited to join me and add your comment about how you are idylling through life.